It was some really horrible traumatising shit. Litres of blood, terrible pain for a week afterwards and total disgust at the memory of itπ€£ I'm so glad it wasn't my husband.
The man was older and had a lot of relationships but this even shocked himπ€£ (after that he really got lost and left me. Broke the psyche of a 28 year old boyπ€£)
Of course it goes very differently for everyone, but what is shown in films and stuff is far from reality most of the time and always makes me laugh a lot